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8 Aug 12

A Refreshing Perspective on Saying Goodbye

Family and friends top the list of things that expats miss most about home. Leaving loved ones behind when moving abroad is tough and can feel like sacrifice in exchange for a different life. Saying goodbye is, however, more than throwing a farewell party for your close relationships. It is a process involving everyone and everything that is part of your life in your native country.

Saying goodbye is a process, not a moment.

Although your farewell party is the actual moment of saying goodbye, the real process of letting go your home country starts before and continues after departure. During my personal expatriation experience, I learned that it is necessary to go through both the prior and the after phase to make a successful transition. Especially the after phase was intense; it taught me an important life lesson on the way. Continue Reading »

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Tagged analyzing the expat process, cultural adjustment, emotions, homesickness, inspirational, life lessons, mindfulness, paradoxes, saying goodbye, tough times
29 Jul 12

Get Inspired to Learn a New Language

In the last 5 years, I have become fluent in three foreign languages; English, German and Spanish. You may think now that I am naturally good at learning languages, but I´m not. I have simply invested a lot of time and energy to finally get the hang of it. And so can you.

In school, I studied the compulsory foreign languages; I did 8 years of English, 5 years of German and 4 years of French. Later on at university I elected to study Spanish for 3 years. I always had good grades for language subjects, but studying grammatical rules and memorizing long lists of vocabulary didn´t help me to transform my book knowledge into real conversations. It won´t surprise you that I could barely communicate in any of those languages despite many years of study.

So I went abroad; one of the best methods to learn to speak other languages. I realized that when it comes to languages I am not a good learner from books and classes, I need real life practice. To improve my English I traveled across New Zealand and Australia, to learn Spanish I studied in Mexico and to master the German language I worked in Germany. My case shows that even if you don´t have a natural born talent for learning foreign languages, experiences abroad make it a lot easier. Continue Reading »

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Tagged brain fitness, communications, cultural enrichment, inspirational, language fluency, languages, mother tongue
22 Jul 12

Adjusting to a New Culture: Culture Shock and Other Stages

During my first year of expatriation in Mexico, I gradually started to feel the urge to find out how adapting to a new culture exactly works. My instincts told me that it was way more complicated than I thought. I knew I had been through several phases but I didn´t really grasp it yet. I had lots of questions and I needed answers.

My search for answers confirmed my presumption. In fact, the more I read about issues such as culture shock, homesickness and the multicultural life in general, the more complicated it got. Reason to worry? I think not. Let’s do this together and have a look at the complex topic of cultural adaptation.

Some say living abroad is a hard concept to understand until you experience it.
I believe even when you experience it, living abroad remains a hard concept. Continue Reading »

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Filed in Across Cultures
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Tagged analyzing the expat process, cultural adjustment, cultural enrichment, culture shock, emotions, honeymoon, living in a no-man's-land, personal growth, tough times
16 Jul 12

Why You Should Move Abroad: 7 Expatriate Benefits

There are more good reasons to choose in favor of the expatriate life besides maybe good weather, lower cost of living, better salary opportunities and potential tax benefits. Even if you are principally joining your husband on his international assignment or following your boyfriend to some place, there are more advantages for you to move abroad than the simple reason to be on his side. I give you 7 expatriate benefits that show what else is in it for you.

 

Benefit #1 – A New Life with Unlimited Options

Moving abroad means making a new start with endless possibilities. It is up to you to think of what you really want to do with your new life. Speed up your career by gathering international experience, take a break from work and learn a new skill or craft, start up a business or do some voluntary work, immerse yourself in learning the local language or find a new passion.

If you want to, this is your chance to do something completely new or to do what you have always wanted to do. Contemplate your thoughts and desires and find out the possibilities in your host country. Getting out of your daily routine and trying something completely different can really revive someone’s spirits. Continue Reading »

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Filed in Preparations
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Tagged cultural enrichment, languages, marriage & relationships, new life, personal growth, social life, traveling
10 Jul 12

How to Get Emotionally Prepared for Expatriation – 6 Tips

Most expats don´t expect to get emotionally effected that strongly by the sudden change of living environment. I was one of them. By now I think it is realistic to expect that at one point you will feel sad, lost, and/or lonely. Prior to your departure, you can think of how to minimize these emotional down times. Consider the following 6 tips to get emotionally prepared and reduce the emotional shock at your new host country.

 

Tip #1 – Getting to know the culture

Cross cultural understanding is fundamental for a successful expatriate experience. It will help you to resolve daily life issues and personal conflicts in your mind. You can inform yourself on beforehand to get to know the culture you soon will be immersed by. Use the Internet and talk to other expatriates about their experiences in your host country. Look into issues such as customs and traditions, religion, food, ways of expressing and clothing, traffic and transportation, etc. Try to gather as much background information as you can in order to develop a good understanding of your destination´s culture.

If possible, visit the country you are planning to live. Short visits won´t give you the opportunity to experience the real daily life. Nevertheless, going there does give you a great chance to have a first impression of the culture. Continue Reading »

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Tagged communications, emotions, languages, saying goodbye
24 Jun 12

Moving Abroad: A Dream with Unlimited Options

There are hundreds of reasons why you could think of moving abroad. It all starts with either things you don´t like about your home country – the so called push factors – or things you long for in another country – the pull factors. However, often the reasons for expatriation are not unambiguous as several reasons may underlie your desire to relocate internationally.

You first start visualizing how your life would be, if you would move abroad. It would be different, that´s for sure, but would it also be better? Naturally, there is no guarantee that everything will work out exactly the way you picture it in your head. But you are tempted to try. You have created yourself a dream! Continue Reading »

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Tagged dreams & wishes, pros and cons, push & pull factors, unlimited options
24 Jun 12

Understanding & Explaining Your Expatriate Experience

Expatriation is a complicated phenomenon. You are going through many changes accompanied with lots of emotions. I think being able to understand and explain what you are going through exactly, makes it easier to find a way to deal with it. On my blog I will share my own experiences with living abroad and how I would have done it with the knowledge I have now.

 

Understanding yourself

By trial and error I had to discover what is so complicated about expatriation. I think I understand it now partially and I think my outcomes can be very helpful

  • for those who are thinking about expatriating,
  • for those who live in another country at the moment,
  • and for those who have been through all of this but decided to return home.

Understanding what expatriation has done and is still doing to me, is one of the most relieving things I have achieved. Continue Reading »

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